what is the opinion of your relatives?

Davis
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Re: what is the opinion of your relatives?

Postby Davis » Mon Apr 30, 2018 8:31 am

if your child is mistaken or fails, ask him what lesson he has learned from this mistake and ask not to do it again;
do not praise the innate talents of your child. Encourage his attempts to work on their improvement, even if he does not succeed. The desire for development is the most important factor affecting the success of a child who is talented since birth. Children who are constantly praised for their natural abilities tend to avoid the heavy tasks that can go to their advantage. This is because they are afraid to disappoint their parents;
the child should not apologize to you for the received deuce. On the contrary, you must focus on finding a problem together and solve it
Joel
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Re: what is the opinion of your relatives?

Postby Joel » Sun May 13, 2018 6:44 am

Immediately or gradually? Ideal if the child himself begins to ask about it. For example: "Mom, and when will Vanya come again?", "Let him stay, and in the morning he will play with me." Such questions mean that the child is bored and in principle is ready to accept a new member of the family.If this does not happen yet, do not worry. Give your man and child time to socialize, leave alone in the room, send to a store or a movie. Only through joint activities will be formed friendship and trust. And very soon everything will fall into place.
Adrian
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Re: what is the opinion of your relatives?

Postby Adrian » Mon Jun 04, 2018 1:48 pm

This is unacceptable not only because another person with his egoism will influence the climate in your family, but also because such a position can become a habit, and the smith of your happiness will always be other people, but not yourself.
I think this is too high a price for happiness, which you lose because of your own weakness, expressed in the unwillingness to bear responsibility, even for yourself.
Caleb
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Re: what is the opinion of your relatives?

Postby Caleb » Fri Jun 08, 2018 2:49 pm

I also often hear about such a thing as creative visualization, against which I have nothing, but I do not see the relevance of this concept in my case. You do not attract what you think and the probability of what you allow, you can attract only what you really want and mentally attract, actually the authors of creative visualization is exactly what it is. Are there any other reasons to prevent the possibility of something that you would not want this to happen, but what should you always be ready for?

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