A good father

Howard
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A good father

Postby Howard » Mon Jan 15, 2018 8:51 pm

Hello, guys! You know, I am going to be a dad!!!!!!!!! I am so happy and excited! And a little bit frightened, because I don't know whether I will manage to be a good father. Nobody said being a good father was easy. No matter what age your child is or how many children you have, you have to know that a father's work is never done. To be a good father, you have to be present, be a good disciplinarian and role model, and be sympathetic to your children's needs without being a pushover. Do you have your own kids? Is it hard? How to be a good father? What should I do to become the best dad?
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Brown_Wolf
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Re: A good father

Postby Brown_Wolf » Sun Jan 21, 2018 9:18 am

I haven't become a father yet, but I think a good father is that one who really loves his child. I have read your post very attentively, and I think you'll be a good father. Having a child is always a big challenge as your life would change forever, but it's worth it. I haven't become a father yet, but I hope that one day I would and I'm sure that I would love with all my heart. The same would happen with you, my dear friend! Just don't be afraid in showing your love to your future child. He or she would praise it very much when he or she grows up, believe me! Good luck!
Rob1012
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Re: A good father

Postby Rob1012 » Tue Feb 13, 2018 8:15 pm

Hello)My husband and I have a daughter( 10 years old).So I can say I know a lot of secrets about upbringing .Actually ,there aren't any special secrets .
If you love your kid,if you show your love to her ,if you care and worry about her ,you will automatically be good father .
And just remember -you don't need to do all you kid will ask ,because you should avoid her transformation into a spoilt kid .
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Re: A good father

Postby Felix » Sun Feb 18, 2018 6:20 pm

How to achieve that a man ceased to feel guilty for his parents' qualities and was happy about fatherhood? In my opinion, it is best to create positive motivation, giving the man to feel that his children love him. Rough flattery is not needed - it's enough just to mention in conversation with the husband what your everyday life is full of: "The child was talking about you", "The son boasted about you today", "The children miss you and look forward to the weekend with impatience". Such evidence increases the self-esteem of a man, encourages him to strive for communication with children.Protect your wife from the nightmare of all young parents - night vigil near the newborn. Both for business and for the family it is much better if a man sleeps at night.
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Re: A good father

Postby Romario » Thu Mar 01, 2018 6:28 pm

Be happy and I wish you to have each day happy. Friendly regards for all of you. I am happy to say that it is great happiness to be father. I strongly recommend you not to hesitate and not to be afraid of it. It is the main aim of our living in this world. I mean bring up worthy people. My story is pretty successful! And I hope that it will last forever. Two kids is the most important treasure in my life ,I put so many efforts to become a father. A good father especially , it is a great responsibility and I surely recognize it .
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Re: A good father

Postby Tyler » Fri Mar 16, 2018 5:14 am

Of course I am ready to start this pretty easy discussion which tells everyone interesting facts from life. I want to say that my story has started some months ago when I became a happy parent. I would like to say that I am ready for all difficulties in this life concerning my son. You might understand me if you are a dad already. It is quite natural that I will call myself as a good parent because I understand all responsibilities while being a father. I am just ready to do everything for my little son for sure
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Re: A good father

Postby Adrian » Mon Jun 04, 2018 1:54 pm

The social paradigm that will be discussed in this article, determines the model of human behavior in life also, as his instincts do, which, in fact, are expressed through this paradigm. Having a certain model of setting and solving problems, a person acts according to this model even when it basically does not work or works, but not as it should.
The initial conceptual scheme of the person's behavior and thinking in solving any problems will be as effective as it corresponds to reality, taking into account those amendments that need to be made, taking into account the time and the circumstances that take place.
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Re: A good father

Postby Caleb » Thu Jun 07, 2018 9:28 am

I'm not a supporter of decision-making at the moment when it's needed, the main thing is getting involved in the fight, we'll figure it out - these are not my friends, for in this approach to life there are no prospects that give us pragmatism and moral readiness for everything.
Actually, that is why there is such a thing as moral and psychological preparation, without which a person is defenseless against a lot of unusual situations in his life, which can arise always and everywhere.
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Josh
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Re: A good father

Postby Josh » Fri Jun 29, 2018 12:21 pm

Hello Howard! My gongratulations to you and your partner! Have you got kids already or in the process still? Unfortunatel i havent got children so far, but i hope to be as lucky as you are soon. I think there are three basic steps to being a good father for your children. Loving them more than anything, i think, gooes without saying. So here are the three things. Number one is honesty. Like any other relationship with adults, relationship with a child has to be based on honesty as well. NO false promisses to get your child to do something you want. Second is acceptance. Children are children, they will make so many mistakes, also will repeat same ones many many times before they learn. We have to accept them for what they are like they accept us the way we are. And the third is support. Support and acceptance are different and it is important you understand this difference. A child has to feel free and safe knowing that there are going to be his parents ready to help him and stand for him no matter what the situation is.
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Re: A good father

Postby Natan » Mon Jul 02, 2018 4:20 pm

So, that no one should turn us around, so that no one manipulates us and tells us what and how to do, we need to replace our sense of duty with our reasonable desires. Do as you want to do, not as you should. You do not owe anything to anyone. There is common sense, there are our desires, based on this common sense, and there are opportunities that each of us currently has. Based on all this, we can make certain decisions, after which we will perform certain actions to achieve the goals that we need.

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