Easton wrote: you have to make this decision together.
I am not agree with that. You must make the decision on your own. they can be agree with this decision - and that would be wonderful! They can disagree with your decision, and this is sad. But they will not make the decision. when we were kids, the parents had the commitments to make some decision for us, because that is the role of the parent - to know what does the kid need better, than he knows it itself. But we are not kids any more, and no one can live our lives four ourselves. I am glad that my parents are not against my plans. But if they would be - the plans would not be changed a bit.