How to share responsibilities during the first year?
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It is important in relationships to find some compromise and you might understand this fact before being together. As for my example in relationships we try to agree our activities with each other. We don't find time for quarrels and disagreements while sharing something. We simdiy do everything together and that's all. Actually it is the best decision if you don't want to have troubles. I will keep this opinion in my mind till the beginning of our being parents and even after it because I think that it is the best one.
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The task of the parents and the people close to the child is not only to feed the child in time, it is good to put it on in season, to ensure that it is clean and tidy so that it does not get sick, but also to educate a person in it independent, responsible, active, literate, self-reliant and capable. There is not a high probability that in the matter of education, mom and dad will make significant progress if they do not bring up in the child an understanding of self-worth. Speaking about the understanding of self-worth, we mean all not glorification of one's own "I", which would make the child an out-and-out self-love and not a very kind person, but we mean the awareness of one's uniqueness, one's ability and talent, for those who love close people, whose love for him is not just emotions and caresses, but everyday hard work for many, many years
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As a rule, children under 3 years and 7 years old get better used to a new person. But children from 3 to 7 years - a special category. They think that "my mother and nobody else's"! But do not postpone the relationship and wait until the child grows up. Think about your position and argue it before the baby. Remember, at this age the child perceives himself quite adult, talk with him from this position. For example: "You decide who you are friends with, that's what Mom chooses."
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Sometimes one should forgive or ask forgiveness for themselves, change one's life and change oneself, surrender oneself to one's principles and tame one's selfishness, show respect and attention, be cold or hot, and so on and so forth. And if all this is aimed at achieving family happiness, then it is worth it, from my point of view. For if you destroy your happiness in its germ, not wanting to pay for it as it seems too high a price, then you will never find it, for the cause of your misfortune will follow you being inside of you in the form of all the negative unmanifest qualities.
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And so you should look at everything in your life, especially the people who surround you, because the nature of man in most cases is not distinguished by the stability of his behavior. Therefore, even for the people closest to you and the most devoted to you, you need to have several options for answering their possible change of attitude towards you. There is a saying that you should always be prepared for the worst, and hope for the best, but I suggest that you always prepare for the best, not in terms of what can happen in your life, but in terms of how you react to it.
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All of us can if we want. You can give a hand to a fallen person because the society demands it from you, or you can just want to help a person who is in trouble, and which consists of the same flesh and blood as you.
And do not feel guilty because of a feeling of duty unperformed before someone, if any you will. The sense of guilt in yourself needs to be burned with hot iron, for this is a very harmful feeling. You and only you decide what is right in your life and what is not, and not someone there with your rules and regulations.
And do not feel guilty because of a feeling of duty unperformed before someone, if any you will. The sense of guilt in yourself needs to be burned with hot iron, for this is a very harmful feeling. You and only you decide what is right in your life and what is not, and not someone there with your rules and regulations.
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I was always amazed by cases of suicide, when very gifted people, completely healthy and capable of much, committed suicide because of temporary problems with the psyche, when their calculations about the prospects for their future - were at a dead end. After all, whatever happened in the life of every suicide, the most important thing remained with him, otherwise they would not have decided at all to do so, but this main body unfortunately made a wrong calculation about himself, and as a result made a decision on self-liquidation .
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Thus, men do not just love sex - they need it. They must satisfy this need, as, indeed, women, just as they satisfy their needs for food, drink, sleep, and so on. Well, just like some people like to eat and sleep, and a lot of things they love that have to do with their basic needs, and some men, like some women, love sex very much, maybe a little stronger than they should. There is nothing so terrible in this. Simply, I repeat - you need to engage in sex with the mind, that is, thinking about the consequences. Then there will be no problems with him, or rather, with love for him.
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Half-truth is known to be the most convenient way to hide something, on the one hand, information is not hidden, and on the other, very important details are not being held in mind, and thus the truth becomes convenient for someone who wants to hide something. First I wanted to name the article: "Murderous half-truth", because personally, it used to perceive it before. However, from an objective point of view, half-truth is still exciting, because it gives only a partial idea of something.
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Yes, of course not, because if something does not work for you, then this is not a sentence, the strongest part of you - your mental faculties, can be reconfigured at any time and you can solve any task assigned to you. The most basic problem of many, of course, is the reluctance to use your brain and data that are inappropriate to the real world, the processing of which also leads to errors and as a result to the wrong results that should be according to the desires of the person.
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