Ben_Roar wrote:. What I am saying is that I would like to be able to know, what kind of the person that woman is,
i am agree with you. there is an option, though, and I am sure you knew about it. There are anonymous and known egg donors, did your agency inform you about that? You are able to ask your close friend or relative to become the egg donor. Then you will be sure that your child will inherit the qualities that you know and that you approve. I am sure you were told about this option. On the other hand - that does raise some additional questions, and does put you to some extent of risk from the law point of view. But in this case you would not worry about the genetic heritage of your child.