Children's selfishness

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Re: Children's selfishness

Postby Lui » Mon Nov 27, 2017 1:50 pm

Hi and everyone who decided to open this topic for discussion. I think it should be discussed because we are all parents and we need to know as much as possible about parenting. And about upbringing your children. Selfishness is a character trait that is cultivated, nurtured by parents and pesto, so that the "fruit" in the form of child-infantile has to reap the parents, and of all those who will continue to meet on its path of life. The child really can become infantile . Everything depends on parents here and on their methods and attitudes in upbringing m
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Re: Children's selfishness

Postby Lorry » Tue Nov 28, 2017 7:29 pm

i think that you all eed just try to give own example of the behavior to the own child. i think that this is one of the best way to show what is right and what in unright . i think thaat you need jsut pay attention on the fact that our children are th ereflection of us and i think that you will get some posiitve and great result when you will undertandit. i think that wit hthe help of it you will get some positve and great motivation to change something in your behavior andyou wil see the positive result when your child will get the same changes and you will get the harmony and understanding at home.
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Re: Children's selfishness

Postby Timmy » Fri Dec 15, 2017 8:02 am

I think that it is just parents' mistake in upbringing. They do such actions they can regret in future. I mean towards their small children . Maybe Frank is right that too much tender treatment and explaining what is good and what is bad may help in future. Play with your child some competative gmve, do not give up, don't let the childto win, that's can be an example that in life you can be both winner and loser and there's nothing to shame. But ultimately all acceptance and allowance can be harmful as well.
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Re: Children's selfishness

Postby Ernest » Tue Dec 26, 2017 1:27 pm

I want to say that selfish traits begin to be shown in the child when the parents satisfy all his whims and caprices, seeking to create a happy childhood for him. They load him with presents, toys, give the most delicious, indulging his "buy, want to bring." When the child is small, it does not weigh the tyranny of parents, but rather pleasantly amused. But the child grows. Funny whims become resistant traits. Growing demands and needs change from toys to expensive things: a camera, a fashionable coat, bicycle, pocket money. Harmless "want to" turns into extortion. Therefore, from the very childhood parent does not need to indulge a child, but simply to educate.
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Re: Children's selfishness

Postby Diego » Tue Jan 09, 2018 5:40 pm

You are just expressed the very principle of my way of raising kids. but, as it was said further - it is not an easy task to accomplish. you have to show lot of patience and understanding in order to see, when do you need to apply the pressure - and where you need to be understanding.
I mean - you need to be understanding in all the cases)) but sometimes you need to be hard, and sometimes - soft, that is what I was trying to say) We still do not need to use that principle with Susan though, she is still too small for that.
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Re: Children's selfishness

Postby Howard » Sun Jan 14, 2018 9:41 pm

Oh my God! Do you have children? When they act in such a way, that doesn't meen that they are selfish. It means that they want to draw your attention, so you could praise the chield for a thing which he had done. If parents raise their children in a right way, they are not selfish.
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Re: Children's selfishness

Postby Lorry » Fri Jan 19, 2018 7:09 am

We all need just keep in the mind that fact that our children are our responsibility and we all need just learn and explain them what is right and what is wrong. i think that you need just pay attention on the way you behaved at home and you will find a lolt of answers on your questions, becuse our childrens follow us in the all our actiona and if you want to change soething in the life of your child you need just try ot change something inthe own life adn you will see the result with the time . i think that you will be happy with the all positive emotions and impressions you will get when you will spend more time with the own child.
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Re: Children's selfishness

Postby Max76 » Fri Jan 26, 2018 8:52 am

Of course, right you are that selfishness is rather bad feature of people's characters, no one wants to have deal with selfish person and our job as parents to prevent such situations. I really don't know why children wants to show their priority in something but maybe in adult life this feature makes us not only selfishness but competitiveness. I want to say that the great deal of us is to try to explain them from the very very childhood what is bad what is good. Treat them as you want to be treated at all
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Re: Children's selfishness

Postby James2 » Sat Feb 03, 2018 11:33 am

We all are responsible for the our children and i think that this is your responsibiity try to explain what is good and right and what is not. i want to sayt that our children reflect our way of behaviour. i think that you need just changes something in yourself to see some changes in your child. because this is very important to start from yourself and i think that you will see the result with the time. i think that you need just be more attentive with the all things you do near your child and try to controle yourslef all the time. i think that with the help of it you wil be happy with the chages for the better.
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Re: Children's selfishness

Postby Felix » Mon Feb 19, 2018 8:45 am

I think such kind of behaviour is the result of parent's greediness. I mean that many parents do not praise their children because they think, that they would overpraise their children and it would turn into something bad, but parents do wrong when they do not praise their children.
First of all it can lead to a low self-appraisal of a child. Praise you children for their little achivments, they are little only for you and for them they are great, and help them to overcome their failures and you would bring up leaders and conquerrors.

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