Hello everybody. Fellows, I have really interesting theme for discussion for parents. do you think friends are important for your kid??? Have the friends some influence on the kid? What do you think? I suppose that friends is inseparable part of children's lives. Of your child has many friends so he is a successful baby I suppose that many children think in this way. Both old people and children need friends. And yes, sometimes they have positive influences on us and children, sometimes no. But you should control such friendship as a parent. But not too much
Good morning. Lui your posts seems to me very interesting and to my mind it is of course should be discussed.. All children should have friends. Because the first reason is of course that they need communication with their peers!!! They need to discover something new and not to be alone. Children's friendship really helps to discover social environment as well and if your child communicate with others it will be not difficult for him find common language with people when he is older. Parents should not forbid to communicate with other children. It is crazy I think
Many parents are worried about whether their children have friends, who their child is friends with, is it not bad for a son or daughter. But everyone wants their friends to be sure. Already no one has any doubts that the child needs a peer society for full development. And at school age, the importance of communicating with peers increases significantly. Most often it is in school that a real friendship is born, which is tested and strengthened in a joint life. Children develop a sense of solidarity, they become proactive. Perhaps, some will exacerbate a sense of shyness, they hide for the time being, gaining confidence, knowing themselves and others.
It is worth asking: why is your child friends with such a boy or girl, what motivates his choice? Sometimes friendships are basically a desire to find someone who could express the feelings that the child himself is not yet available. For example, quite often in the friendship of two children one can observe the attraction of opposites: one girl is extremely shy, diligent; and her best friend hates school and runs around the yard every day, playing "Cossack robbers". A quiet and closed boy, who is afraid of a strict and angry father, chooses a bully and a bully to his friends. He unconsciously attracts the manifestation of aggressiveness in a friend, through him he tries to better understand his father, learns how to cope with him.
Some kids are naturally good at making friends, while other kids may struggle to strike up a conversation with another child. If your child has been struggling to make friends, you may be concerned and want to know what you can do to help. There are many different ways that you can support your child’s socialization efforts, help your child to develop good social skills, and increase your child’s opportunities for socializing. Model good behavior for your child. Children look to their parents for guidance about how to behave in social situations. Modeling good social behavior when you interact with acquaintances, friends, family members, and other parents can help your children develop positive social skills.
What is friendship? Definitions of this word is huge. But if we generalize them and apply them to the relationships between children, then friendship is a close and voluntary relationship that is a source of emotional support and empathy for the child. For the first time interest in contact with other children arises in a 2-3-year-old child, who will rather share a sovochkom and a bucket with a boy or girlfriend than with an unknown to him, give a typewriter and a doll to a peer, not an adult.Becoming older, children 3-6 years will be friends with those who offer to play with their toys or treat candy, do not mischief, do not cry and do not fight.
I think that any parent should not interfere in this natural process. it would be really stupid to prevent them from communication with other children or moreover not to allow communication with them. It would be great to let it meet with other kids, that is all. Meet other couples with the kids, and let them play together. then it will be the kindergarten, school. This all goes naturally. All children should have friends without any words. Your role here is just giving positive thoughts and of course good advice....
Well well. I would like to say that friends are very important in children's development. If there are no friends in your baby from the very childhood, so you can have troubles with your baby because he can be afraid of socializing. Friends can help your baby in socializing and as well in developing communicative skills. And truly say I don't understand those parents who can always keep their baby at home, forbidding to communicate with his friends or to be acquainted with other kids. Friendship should be acknowledged by parents
It is one of the developer of their personalities. And we have no rights to forbid them to communicate with other children. If you do it so I am sure that your baby will suffer from it, he will sit at home during the whole days and he will off communication.. It is so strange, am I right? Your baby will have lack of communication and in conclusion he will be closed person, not communicative and so on.. Friends will help your baby to be friendly to be oriented in the society.
Also, family ties are expanding, the peculiarity of which should also be taken into account, so that everything in the family is fine, there were no disagreements and lies. And this is not the only thing that is required from a person who wants to find happiness in family life, there are still many personal qualities that should be taken under tight control and not allow them to negatively affect family relations. The main enemy of family happiness, of course, is selfishness; in general, it is an obstacle to proper interaction with people, because it closes the person's attention exclusively on himself and thereby finds a similar response from other people.
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