How do you deal with this?

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Re: How do you deal with this?

Postby JerryLee » Sun Jun 26, 2016 9:36 am

Get out there! There are plenty of other ways to meet new people. One of the best ways to do so is by participating in social activities you’re interested in anyway. For instance, start hitting that open mic night you’ve been tempted to check out. Weekly events are great, because you’ll start to recognize people, and vice versa. Even better: find a participatory social activity! Be active and i guess then you'll be able to find a person, whom you'll like and he will ike you and perhaps you won't be lonely any more then...
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Re: How do you deal with this?

Postby Natan Scot » Sun Jul 03, 2016 5:28 pm

I guess all people sooner or later go through this. do not worry. maybe you can leave you comfort zone and try one night relations. why hot. maybe you will like it and will not stop doing it then but i am not sure about that to be honest. haha or try to find new boyfriend as soon as possible! if no...well...there is only one way out for you then - masturbate. all people do that and it is nothing wrong with it. just saying it in case you are shy of it. no one will judge you for it. actually nobody will know you do that in fact. so feel free to feel good ;)
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Re: How do you deal with this?

Postby Moppy » Tue Jul 12, 2016 7:26 am

Hi everybody here) Sometimes finding a great boyfriend is very hard....I think, that you should figure out what your standards are and what type of guy makes you happy and do not settle for less..... For instance, if you want a guy who can make you laugh, you have things in common with, but is a gentlemen and treats you with respect and you happen to find a guy who is funny and charming but is not such a gentlemen, do not settle. :) :) There is many fish in the water and there will be someone better for you .... Set your standards high, but also do not be extremely selective.
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Re: How do you deal with this?

Postby Paul_O » Wed Jul 13, 2016 6:28 pm

Masturbation works well for some time of course. But in some time you feel that it is not enough. Especially if you are the type of a person who does not sleep with strangers. That tells that you are really cherishing the intimate sensual and emotional contact with your partner - and simple physiological act is not enough for you. I can understand that - i am that kind of a person myself) So - handjob is a way... With some porn on the screen perhaps. I really hope you will find a mate soon. It is hard for people with both high morals and high libido to linger on trough such periods of life)
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Re: How do you deal with this?

Postby Endi » Thu Jul 14, 2016 12:37 pm

i have several options for you but i do not know whether you accept them or not. i think that it is very good to have sex with a friend. if you do not want to be in relations but you want sex then why not to ask your friend about it. if he is in the same situation then he would not be against it. if this variant is not for you then i think that you may just forget about sex, and wait till the moment you find a partner. you may do masturbation is you want to please yourself. but sex with the friend is better.
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Re: How do you deal with this?

Postby Stephan » Sat Jul 23, 2016 5:13 pm

I am the person)))))))))) I have never thought relations for a night being unappropriate for me and my way of life, you know? And now being married and having a son, i do understand that my way of life was and is correct. That is why do what you do and never change because someone says you are doing wrong))
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Re: How do you deal with this?

Postby Chase » Mon Aug 01, 2016 12:46 pm

i think that there are a lot of good ways our of your problem but you have to understand that not all of them may be really suitable for you. i think that the best way would be to have sex with your friend. you may not worry that you may catch some disease and i a sure that it would be not difficult to find the suitable friend who would like to have just sex with you and nothing more. if you do not want to use this variant then you may just masturbate and that is it. of course it is very hard to compare it to sex but still.
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Re: How do you deal with this?

Postby Josh_H » Wed Aug 10, 2016 9:44 am

Fortunatelly i am not lonely any more and i am happy about it, but i know what does it mean to feel yourself alone and sometimes sad, cause no one matters this... Perhaps you have to understand for yoursef that oneliness is not bad, it means you have more time for yourself! Enjoy it untill you can)
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Re: How do you deal with this?

Postby Easton » Wed Aug 10, 2016 2:34 pm

i do not understand you but i know that there are such people who do not like to have sex with strangers and for them it is not acceptable. i am not such a person, although now i am in relations still for me it is normal to have sex with strangers. but i think that i can not help you, if you find the friend who will want to have sex with you then it will be just perfect. you may try this variant. if not then you have to wait until you will meet the person for serious relations and have sex with him.
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Re: How do you deal with this?

Postby Brendon_L » Sat Aug 13, 2016 4:12 pm

AHm there are such guys who can do it for money??? of masturbation... well nothing else cand advice, cause if you do not have time on search and some singe meetings, then you are puzzled and can help yourself by yourself... SOrry nothing else come to my mind.

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