Andreas_Maroon wrote:if you feel hurt - what is the point to linger on with that feeling?
you are right about that , of course. On the other hand - each separation, each breaking up is not just pain and nothing but the pain. I remember once - after an end of long relations - I was hanging around with friends all the time - just to get myself distracted from that pain inside. And I told one of my former classmates of my situation - and he said "A Breakeup? that is awesome, congratulations!" I was stunned first - and asked him if that was a kind of a bad joke. But he explained me - that instead of being grim and miserable - I should force myself to look on the bright side of the situation. I have new opportunities opened in front of me, new possibilities. Besides, he said - you need to learn a lesson - why did this happened - and not to repeat the same mistake the next time.