Love gives the desire to create, at the same time simple sympathy is destructive. Love is a positive impact on your personality, it will reveal all the best in you. It will fill you with new energy, set goals, and awaken interest in life. It will promote creativity and worthy deeds. Your personal development. Love will restore a sense of self-esteem, sense of duty and self-confidence. It will propel you to success. You'll study hard, planned to live and not waste your time on trifles. Sympathy just able to destroy everything. It carries a mess. When you just feel sympathy, it decreases your performance, and the ability to work, your talents can not be shown.
Your family and close friends immediately commented: "Wow What happened to you you will not go and do not do anything, maybe you're sick? Sympathy is building castles in the air, where everything will be fine, and you will understand each other!? and where there is no school, work, study, money and responsibility to others. Love looks through rose-colored glasses. Love implies compatibility, sympathy neglected. If you like, you are attracted not only the appearance and behavior of a loved one, but also his character, emotions, ideas, attitude. You are interested in his way of thinking and the response to a particular situation.
Love takes into account the shortcomings of their liking ignores (does not notice the flaws). Love will help you recognize the man in the fine qualities; Love also sees imperfections favorite, but sharpens them, and emphasizes the qualities that are worthy of respect and admiration. Sympathy does not allow you to see in man anything negative. You protect him from any criticism. Sympathy makes you so stupid that you think you have one, two, admire you quality (beautiful, sports, language is suspended) outweigh its disadvantages and problems (rude, rudeness, laziness) Love accepts a decent man, despite its shortcomings ( short stature, big nose, ears).
Love is not afraid of separation, for sympathy - this is break. Separated love can even get stronger. When a loved one away from you, then you will understand better how much he means to you (your relationship). Sympathy is dying, it is worth only man to disappear from sight. As they say: out of sight - out of mind. Because sympathy is alive due to physical attraction, it does not stand the test of time. Love careful in physical contact, sympathy exploits them. True love is peculiar physical attraction, but really loving people never put sex to the first place in their relationship, for them it is like the cream on the cake. First, they respect and appreciate each other, and only then expresses the closeness of their feelings for each other in marriage. They protect each other.
Love is unselfish, sympathy is very selfish. Love is not only based on emotion, it is expressed more in action when you are attentive to the person, do something good for him, and not only when you want to, but constantly. Naturally, if the same apply to you, then love is easy; but there is one test for true love: Could you love a person, if he does not notice your needs, or forgets to do what you asked, or when he was in trouble. Love - is when you bring breakfast in bed. That is not easy the first to stand up and prepare breakfast and bring your loved one who just woke up and it does not matter a husband does. This makes love. Sympathy is very selfish. Those who feel sympathy only think about what to get from the other, to be loved and cherished.
Love is the approval of family and friends, sympathy calls the only a reprimand. If you really love someone, the family, and your friends are likely to approve your relationship. They will see how harmonious you become a man, as a person that you have new interests, and your relationships complement and strengthen each of you. The approval of the parents and friends used to say that love is real. But if parents and friends do not approve of your relationship with your friend then beware !!! For someone who is interested in your future well-being, not bad advise and aims to protect you from the pain.
Love produces confidence, sympathy creates doubt. Love sometimes experiencing jealousy. But, considered everything, it always trusted loved one. Sympathy is committed to suppress the constant jealousy and feelings of powerlessness. Some even believe that the more they are jealous, the more love, or beats, then, love - this is a perversion. Jealousy - feeling unhealthy and says insecurity and low self-esteem. Suspicion "puts" his friend on the circuit, so that at any moment it could pat - is selfishness. In any case, true love has certain features that are not so hard to see. You just have to be attentive.
Love takes into account the reality, sympathy ignores it (does not notice it). When true love you're looking at the problem openly and not try to downplay their significance. For example, two students, who love each other, are making every effort to finish university, without getting married, knowing that that their relationship will become even stronger, they will have nothing to fear, that their love has cooled down, this family will be very solid. People who truly love each other, do not hide from the problems and try to solve them. If something threatens their relationship, they discuss it openly and try to find a reasonable solution.
How many times in my entire life, you hear a declaration of love? Probably more than once. Most people do not just talking to others about his ardent feelings. But for some reason many couples break up. Maybe it happens because of "irreconcilable differences", and, perhaps, the reason for it becomes the fact that for the love they accept some other, though no less bright, feel. The main thing in a series of crazy love and enthusiasm, able to recognize true love when she comes. True Love can be easily confused with a strong affection, with love, with passion. Talk about what your own feelings, you can only after a couple of years since the beginning of the relationship.
Think, do you know for sure you love your partner. If you can no longer be called the quality of two or three, and put the external data in the first place, that it is not about love. True love can not exist without respect for the partners to each other. Consider whether you speak and the actions of your partner that you respect each other. For example, a person who respects your partner will never make decisions for two. Trying to recognize true love, think about whether there is selfishness in your relationship with the one or the other. A loving person will not try to meet their needs with the help of a romantic relationship with a partner.
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