Just_R wrote: but sometimes the jealousy becomes the obsession -
I know what you are speaking about - I did have that kind of experience with my ex. that means that each time you are leaving the cell phone somewhere - he reads all the messages and checks the call list. Once I even made a joke on him, I created the person profile there - called it "Beloved". He read the message that I wrote there to this fake number, it was written there "Luca, if you are reading this - it means that you are an asshole! how many times did I tell you not to read my messages?". We did laugh then though.. It was a good sign. At leas he showed me that he does understand that he came too far.