All that life wants from us is attention on our part, it can not talk with us in the usual sense of this process, because words are not as important as the general picture that each of us can see, even if by some of its bodies feelings.Going into the meaning of everything that happens to us in this life, you can see the obvious language of communication with us, you can call it what you want - communication with God or the universe, it has absolutely no value, because I do not know the essence of the universe, you also can not know it, but how the entire system works, we are fully capable of understanding, and this, apparently, is enough for us.
It is important not to allow the primary reaction and primary emotions to launch a chain of new emotions and negative thoughts that will start to grow like a snowball, plunging a person into an increasingly deeper state of despair. After all, the most important thing that is required for a person not to fall into this morbid condition is to continue to struggle, or, in those cases when it is impossible, to accept a new reality, to reconcile with it and start looking for in it its joys and happiness.
For example, a woman who needs a man can take her husband away from her friend if she finds out about her family problems and uses them in her own way for good. Therefore, some of your problems do not need to be told to anyone but specialists who know how to solve them, and overly curious people who are interested in someone else's life can and should be lied to not let them know more about you than necessary. And people themselves sometimes do not want to be told the truth, for example, about them. The fear of truth, from which side you do not approach it, is often quite justified. Therefore, when people see that they are in danger, they lie, as much as they can. And other people on the contrary - reject the truth and demand a lie.
And there is no need to compare anyone with anyone, people are all different, and each person has his own merits and demerits. And considering what you want to learn about how to save a marriage, then I understand that you are not going to change your wife or your husband to another person. So, you should not even compare her or him with other people. Do not make this mistake.Do not exaggerate each other. Do not demand too much from your wife / husband. This, as you know, is another serious mistake made by the spouses, undermining the foundation of their marriage.
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