Richard wrote:maybe the problem exists just in your head
Richard - I will surprise you with the next statement - all the emotions, thoughts and dreams - that all does exist only in our heads) Though that does not mean that those things are not real) They drive us, give us motives for real actions that do change the outside world. That is why all those emotions, thoughts and dreams should not be taken lightly. Regarding of relations - it is important to distinguish the wishes and perspectives from the fears - in relations we are driven by both of those forces - and it is important not to build your relations on the basis of the fear. If you are afraid that someone is going to leave you - all your actions and thoughts will be built on the fear. That is not a solid foundation.