Thus, as we see, the work that a sports psychologist conducts with athletes can very well be adapted to ordinary people, to prepare them for the challenges that life throws at them. And our life is full of injustices, it does not always develop as we want, so you need to be psychologically prepared for everything. I will not say that the psychology of sports is the best solution for a person who wants to prepare for the difficulties in life, but some points can be borrowed from it. Therefore, even if you do not do sports at all, but at the same time want to win victories in your life and achieve success in various areas, then I recommend that you get a better look at the work that the sports psychologist conducts with athletes and use the techniques used to develop psychology the winner.
After all, often our lies turn into truth, when we avoid a negative reality and create ourselves another, more suitable reality for us, for example, running away from our problems or thinking of ourselves better than there is in reality. And in the long run, we can really come to a new reality that is more acceptable to us. Truth, let's say, a thing is very difficult, it can be true until a certain moment, until we learn more or do something that will destroy one truth and create another, a new one. For example, if a person has failed, having made a number of serious mistakes, then he can be called a loser and this statement will be true.
I, for example, introduced my partner to my parents in a year later. Of course, I was worried and very afraid. In half a year, he invited me to meet his parents. I also worried too much. But in both cases, everything went well. After 2 months we introduced parents to each another. As always, I was worried. But they quickly found a common language. Somehow everything happened on its own) Now we are rarely going all in one house. We always remember such moments for a long time. So good luck to you!
But one thing I know for sure is that if your marriage is not based on love, then sooner or later it will collapse like a house of cards. And perhaps it is not worth saving now if it is not viable. And its viability depends on the relationship of the spouses to each other and on their desire to sacrifice something for the sake of their future together, for their marriage and love. You know, I had to solve a lot of family problems and I know first-hand about why many marriages break up.
And this pleasure can be obtained in other ways, without a partner. Let this not exactly what nature expects from us, but nevertheless people thus get the desired pleasure, thereby reducing their dependence on people of the opposite sex. Here you also need to think about the extent to which this need makes you dependent on other people, from men or women. And how much your fear of loneliness is connected with this need. I do not think that in this business it is necessary to become a completely self-sufficient person, but some points connected with it can be reviewed.
The difference between the discipline imposed by society and the one we define ourselves is enormous, people are in completely different worlds, depending on the discipline that he is used to adhering to. Speaking frankly, of course, external conditions are the primary factor that forces us to adhere to at least some kind of discipline, for by nature the person is loosened and irresponsible, and only severe external factors force him to develop certain qualities that make him stronger.
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