The alcoholism in the family

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Timmy
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Re: The alcoholism in the family

Postby Timmy » Thu Dec 07, 2017 12:59 pm

I suppose it is difficult topic for discussion because each person has personal opinion as for this question and it should be included in our conversation. To my mind alcoholism happens very often nowadays in our world. I am sure that it is very sad story as well. Because under the influences of alcohol people don't understand that it can destroy their life as well as relationships with close people. I faced with alcoholism in family, not in mine hopefully, but just in my aunt's family. Her husband was a horrible alcoholic and he was eager to waste all money just for stiff beverages. It is destroying fact, don't even try to be involved in drinking it
Howard
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Re: The alcoholism in the family

Postby Howard » Tue Jan 16, 2018 5:05 pm

When there is alcoholism in a family, everyone is impacted in a negative manner. Many feel shame, anger, embarrassment, internalized fears of "not being good enough" and more. You may not be able right now to escape the alcoholic, but there are ways for you to cope. Choose to not feel ashamed. Shame is a self-imposed feeling. No one can "shame" you. Remember YOU are not the alcoholic. Make sure that you have friends who know, and who care about you for who YOU are. Don't isolate yourself. Isolating only causes us to feel different from others. Instead of isolating, join groups or activities that you find to be interesting or fun. If somehow the alcoholic in your family does something, well, alcoholic in front of the group, tell them that the person is an alcoholic and you have no control over his or her actions.
Max76
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Re: The alcoholism in the family

Postby Max76 » Mon Jan 22, 2018 7:46 pm

Hi there guys. Hopefully I have never faced with it because fortunately my partner doesn't drink at all and me too. Just a glass of wine on some special occasions. I think that drinking alcohol is an evil. I am sure in it because my father was a constant drinker and you can not imagine how it is difficult to live in such family. I was brought up in it and I don't want my child will have the same. That's why me and my husband are ideal examples and role models for our son and for our future children.
Romario
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Re: The alcoholism in the family

Postby Romario » Wed Feb 21, 2018 10:04 pm

I seriously understand that being an alcoholic means to kill yourself before your death. If you are a drunker so you should recognize that your health will be very weak!!!!! This is a huge problem because alcoholism can even ruin the lives of family members. Alcoholics have difficulty taking an objective view on life, and they may not realize that they are acting in an unfair or even abusive manner. not only one person suffers from the alcohol but also his close people. I know it from my own experience as well.. It is not like something fashionable
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Re: The alcoholism in the family

Postby Tyler » Mon Mar 05, 2018 9:46 pm

I mentioned you the story about horrible childhood of my partner because of his father and alcoholism. It is horrible because effects of alcohol on the human body is very hard to call positive, although some scientists today are trying to prove that alcohol may be useful. Yet in most cases, the use of alcohol leads to extremely negative consequences, especially if it is regular. If you have opportunity, try to safe yourself and your family from alcohol influences. Let`s make it too cautiously!!!
Eric
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Re: The alcoholism in the family

Postby Eric » Tue Mar 27, 2018 9:04 am

The main task here - to send a person stumbling on the right path. It is impossible to turn a serious conversation about family problems and alcoholism in playful fun, or the scene of hysteria. It will only help the facts stated sober, in a calm atmosphere and without any extra nerves. It is necessary to explain the man that alcoholism and family - concepts incompatible. It destroys one another. A man devoted to drinking, in addition, that creates a problem for your family enjoys. I think it is obvious anyway.
Bart
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Re: The alcoholism in the family

Postby Bart » Tue Apr 03, 2018 5:35 am

To my mind if you see that your close person uses alcohol try to fight with it. Actually it would be really the best method in your situation, to help your close person to fight with such a habit. It seems to me that nowadays it is better to be into something healthy and active, but not use a lot of alcohol and be drunk every day. It is scared for me and I don't understand such actions from other people. Alcoholism in family is horrible thing and if you don't want to lose the person who is absorbed in drinking you might fight with it.
Joel
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Re: The alcoholism in the family

Postby Joel » Sat May 12, 2018 5:37 am

But jealousy is especially dangerous for men, because it can easily cause impotence.
The sense of guilt devours a person in the most literal sense of the word, provoking the development of cancer, and the habit of feeling sorry for itself can lead to cirrhosis of the liver, gastritis or ulcers.
But they will encounter diseases of the digestive tract and constipations have the greatest chances of greedy and envious people.
Daniel89
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Re: The alcoholism in the family

Postby Daniel89 » Tue May 22, 2018 2:57 am

I don't even know what I would do if I have such a problem that there is alcoholism in my family. fortunately my husband understands it. Of course, there is a fashion not to drink alcohol, but not many people stick to it. The persentage of people who use the alcohol is great. People depend from it.It can completely change all our imunity system and influenced blood preasure. I think that alcoholic habits should be prevented from the very beginning. I am sorry about your husband, just some specialist can help you. I am actually so sorry about this situation
Adrian
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Re: The alcoholism in the family

Postby Adrian » Sat Jun 02, 2018 11:56 am

The last one, too, is wrong. Without deception in this life, nowhere, but it should not be total, it is obvious, otherwise our life will become simply unbearable. I can clearly see in the total deception the weakness and meanness of the person using it, because it is necessary to deceive only when there is nothing else left, and not when you want. After all, the deceiver clearly shows to everyone that otherwise he can not and probably does not want to interact with people, which already says that he looks at life rather narrowly.

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