The alcoholism in the family

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Leon
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Re: The alcoholism in the family

Postby Leon » Fri May 13, 2016 2:57 pm

For the stability of the family is an important fact that when domestic drunkenness and alcoholism increased overhead expenses of the family. Between spouses, even in normal relations, or that joint life periods can be financial disagreements. At regular domestic drunkenness and alcoholism such differences become particularly acute. It is only natural that as a result of a systematic drunkenness level of family life compared to non-drinking families decreases dramatically. Another consequence of systematic domestic drinking and alcoholism is a fairly sharp decline in male potency, and even the appearance of impotence.
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Re: The alcoholism in the family

Postby Benjamin » Fri May 13, 2016 2:58 pm

In intimate relationships on the part of the alcoholic manifest aggression, cruelty, brutality, which causes negative feelings in women, and in some cases can lead, as already mentioned, to the emergence of frigidity. In a family where one parent regularly drink, there are no conditions for the proper upbringing and development of children. Children and other family members feel a keen sense of shame in front of friends, friends, friends, neighbors, relatives of the drinking man (woman). As a rule, drunkards and alcoholics commit a lot of antisocial behavior (fighting, bullying, scandals and so forth.).
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Re: The alcoholism in the family

Postby Bernard » Fri May 13, 2016 2:59 pm

On the basis of systematic domestic drunkenness and alcoholism raises a number of conditions and circumstances that destroy the marriage life. Therefore, it is no accident that the drunkenness and alcoholism in the hierarchy of the divorce motives constitute the lion's share, and almost always in the first place. It is impossible and it is difficult to overestimate the negative consequences for the said social evil family. We do not dwell on the economic consequences of alcohol abuse and alcoholism to social production as a special research topic. In addition, there is another aspect of the serious consequences of alcoholism for the family: over time there is a change of character suffering from alcoholism, and even more than that, very often the degradation of the individual.
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Re: The alcoholism in the family

Postby Marvin » Fri May 13, 2016 2:59 pm

In adolescence and early adulthood dysfunctional family environment has a special effect on the occurrence of addiction to alcohol. Many adverse effects on children, adolescents and young people have also living conditions in incomplete or broken families. In these circumstances, to a large extent hindered the social control of the teenager, and the general worsening of the family atmosphere. Of course, a decisive role in the upbringing of the family belongs to the behavior of the parents, the presence or absence of "double standards", cynicism, nihilism, skepticism with respect to the core values ​​of culture and civilization.
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Re: The alcoholism in the family

Postby Owen » Fri May 13, 2016 3:00 pm

Alcohol does not only harm the human body, but also people suffering from alcoholism, harm to society, but most of all his family. Because it is only the most suffering for him and because of him. Alcoholic contributes to the emergence and development of conflicts in the family, usually starting between its individual members, and gradually involve all extremely painful impact on their mood, relationships, and often health. The appearance of conflict is not necessarily connected with extremely long alcohol someone from the family members. The duration, intensity, alcohol abuse, of course, play a very important role and family life is converted into an endless chain of conflicts, but even a single case of intoxication cause psychological trauma, which do not have consequences for the future of family life.
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Re: The alcoholism in the family

Postby Shannon » Sat May 14, 2016 6:22 am

People call such guys functioning alcoholic.Drinking to unwind sounds perfectly reasonable. It’s not uncommon to want to unwind at the end of the day with a glass of wine or a cold beer. Then they drink more and more. Functioning alcoholic still has his job – even though he is hungover some mornings, he still has hiscar, and his relationships still seem intact. But he is not a functioning alcoholic because drinking is his only coping mechanism. He is drinking to deal with stress. He is drinking to deal with success. Did you think of that maybe? Try to talk to your partner first about everything.
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Re: The alcoholism in the family

Postby Tom1 » Sun May 15, 2016 3:59 pm

The fight against alcoholism in the family does not mean that you need to destroy all stocks of alcohol in the house. This clearly does not help. Inveterate drunkard will always find a way to get drunk and carry into the house of a new portion of booze. What to do in such a situation? There are not many ways to cure human alcoholism, and that's a phenomenon in the medical community for a long time acquired the status of the disease, and not without reason. The main way to combat the problems of alcoholism in the family is the early identification of the problem. We must clearly recognize that there can be no compromise. It should be put first of all for myself an ultimatum: alcoholism and family compatible.
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Re: The alcoholism in the family

Postby Jared » Mon May 16, 2016 7:22 pm

Alcoholism can easily sneak up on you if you aren't careful. When your social life revolves around going to bars or there's a keg party every weekend, it's hard to keep things under control. Changing your routine and making a serious plan to cut back on your consumption is a good way to start. I have only one advice for you! Keep alcohol out of your house. It's a lot easier for alcohol to become a daily, insidious habit if you always keep it within reach. If your liquor cabinet is always stocked, you can easily be tempted. If there is a half-drunk bottle of wine or a six pack is chilling in the fridge, it's going to be tough to avoid drinking. The first step to avoiding alcoholism is to keep it out of your house when it's not serving an immediate social purpose. If you don't want to stop drinking but just cut back to a healthy amount, not surrounding yourself with it is a good place to start.
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Re: The alcoholism in the family

Postby geff » Wed May 18, 2016 7:11 am

In nature there are many quality ways to get rid of alcoholic addiction. However, everywhere there are pitfalls: people who stop drinking do not know what to do next with a sober life. Very often people who drink, become collectors of books, stamps, coins – but this is the best outcome.
You should be ready that your husband will change. Those who drank yesterday, not drying out, also can suddenly turn into a miser and a bore. Life with a new spouse can be an ordeal. The husband should again help to understand the meaning of life and to remember that people get rid of alcohol dependence and different, not what it was before. It's important to have a goal which gave to a sober life meaning and made it enjoyable.
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Re: The alcoholism in the family

Postby Tom » Wed May 18, 2016 11:25 am

Hi everybody. I think it is a reaaly bad and huge problem of everyday society. In the early stages of alcoholism, it may seem like life remains fairly consistent. In fact, people may not know for a while that anything is wrong. Alcoholism in the family is a slow disease – the awareness of it comes gradually as do the slowly progressing warning signs. As the disease progresses, those signs become easier see, especially as drinking becomes more important than everything, and everyone else. At this juncture it becomes more difficult to know what to expect from problem drinkers, leaving the rest of the family to come up with coping mechanisms for daily life issues.

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