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I can't unswer this question straight, because I don't think that it may be good or bad because it depends from many factors. First of all, it depends from money, whether you have a job or an appartner, from the state of your parents health, from the community were you live, from many factors.
As for me I moved from my parents nearly two years ago. At one point, I suddenly wanted freedom and privacy. In the beginning to live alone was very difficult, I have had to clean, cook, go shopping myself withour my parents' assistance. But my reward is the freedom, I can stay outside till the time i want, date whoever i want and other stuff. But it is always a pleasant feeling to come back home, i travel home once a half year and I always know that this is place when i am always looked forward , where i can eat a delicious food cooked by my mom.
Live with your parents or try your best to leave your parents' home as quickly as possible? - that is the question. It would seem that the answer is obvious: to live with parents, since it is cheaper (conditionally, free of charge), more comfortable (father - technical support, mother - service staff) and more familiar. The bonus is almost always a complete food refrigerator, for which, in most cases, parents pay. Moreover, the status of the child, by the standards of parents, lasts for up to 30-35 years. Next already in front of neighbors it is inconvenient that such a family without a family, so the offspring try to quickly get off somewhere to get married.
Living with your parents after previously being on your own, having a job and life of your own can be a difficult transition. You can experience a lot of demands from them while taking care of their financial matters as well as doing the part of being a "breadwinner" in the household. In some extreme cases, parents can become very demanding and controlling of your adult life while under their roof. This can lead to a more complicated relationship between parent and their now, adult child. However, we cannot deny the fact that parents are the most special beings in our life.
To live with parents is of course good because we should appreciate every minute spent with them. But living is good to some age. I love my parents very much and I am so happy that they have brought up me like a real man, a worthy person, with strong character. And to tell the truth I would like to live with them all time, I want to spend with them every single moment and minute. I am soooo thankful for them and their support when I needed it and still need. They are fantastic parents and I have really fantastic relationships with them
Sometimes parents unconsciously form a feeling of insignificance in the child. Joint living allows you to correct this mistake. In the first scenario, one of the members of the family takes on the role of a frail creature, and the other - of his forced savior. Both win both because they satisfy their need for a sense of need. The plot of the second scenario is fueled by your fear of remaining completely alone. You are afraid that "no one will be after you." And if you have trouble, then no one will help. Therefore, for the sake of safety, you prefer to stay with your parents.
I told here that I think that almost all of visitors of this website would like to stay with parents forever?!!! I am not an exception. I love my parents so much and I can not imagine my life without them. If there is some possible way, so I would like to live with my parents forever and be always like a small kid who needs psrents' love. Besides each one has to build own family and truly say to move away from parents. But to my mind each person has just some special age when he decides to move from parents or simply to live with them
Alas, such sad lamentations are quite common for young couples and couples who are already married. Mums from guys, like the guys themselves, are different. And you can not please anyone completely, it goes without saying. Someone is jealous of his son, simply because he is the only one, and my mother did not think that you so suddenly appear on the horizon, and even with suitcases, and besides, apparently, for a long time. Someone can not stand smoking ladies, painted in pink, loving night parties, but not very fond of standing at the stove. You can be blameworthy to blame, and maybe in the next room in a whisper to discuss. In any case, you should be ready for this.
Of course it is good but before some age. The age you should organize your own life. Till twenty maybe. I love my parents soooo much!!! They accepted me and I am proud of them, and thankful for their support. If there is my desire I would like to stay in my family home for the whole life because I would like to spend as much as possible time with my dears. It is really not doubtful opportunity to see their smiles and care about yourself. I appreciate every single minute with them. But I can not always live with them.. Unfortunately.
I told you that always speaking about parents I have tears in my eyes. Because every day I miss them and you can not imagine how it is difficult for me to live so far from them. If there is my choice I would live with them simple forever!!! But everyone understands that living with parents after some special age is a little bit not normal. I love my parents but I couldn't live with them forever you might know that after some period of your life you should build your own family. With your own children.
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