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Re: adoption

Postby Ernest » Mon Dec 25, 2017 2:55 pm

People in our country know a little about priorities in the organization of orphans. The fact that psychologists have long come to the conclusion that the orphanage is not a place for children, that "every child is a family" is not just loud words that the number of boarding schools in Ukraine is decreasing, although not as fast as one would like would. In our country, few people are interested in orphanhood. Actually, only government agencies - on duty, charitable organizations and directly those who are going to take the child to the family. And fortunately, the latter more and more.
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Re: adoption

Postby Diego » Tue Jan 09, 2018 4:30 pm

Your decision should not be taken in a state of euphoria: saw - wanted - took. Enthusiasm, perhaps, will soon pass, leaving behind hundreds of acquired problems, which will no longer be able to fight. Think carefully about your decision, discuss it again and again with your relatives, study special literature, visit a psychologist. Before you take the child to the family, you need to understand the psychological characteristics of his age, know what problems you are waiting with this baby, be ready to answer the uncomfortable questions that he will ask you.In addition, children tend to be sick and demand to themselves increased attention. They have a bad mood, they are not always obedient, their desires may not coincide with yours, they often have problems with their peers and learning difficulties.
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Re: adoption

Postby Howard » Mon Jan 15, 2018 9:51 pm

Adopting a child can be a wonderful, life-changing experience. To begin the process, take some time to evaluate your life and make sure that you’re ready for this change. When you’re ready to start the process, make sure you meet the requirements to adopt. Then you can decide which type of adoption you want to choose. For example, you might consider an independent adoption or one through a local agency. You’ll also need to go through a substantial legal process. Know that adoption, while rewarding, can be a lengthy process. It will take patience, but the outcome will be a wonderful new addition to your family!
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Re: adoption

Postby Rob1012 » Thu Feb 15, 2018 4:15 pm

Adopting a child is a serious step in your life.It can't be spontaneous .You have to be ready for that .We adopt with the husband our daughter ,we did it step,but we prepared a lot .I mean,we were going to some courses connecting with upbringing children .Teachers There explained us about different behavior in different age and many other things.So,before adopting ,you need to visit some courses or individual lessons with qualified specialist.
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Re: adoption

Postby Duke » Sat Mar 03, 2018 8:01 pm

firstly, i would like to introduce myself. my name is Max and i am 22 years old. i have got boyfriend, we are together for 5 years (for us marriage is not necessary).
so, we started to talk about children, but i think that i am too young for children and i am afraid of it yet. so my friend has recommend me this website. she told me that here i will find adherents. so i am here. and i want to know about adoption system as much as possible. guys, who has experience with adoption system
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Re: adoption

Postby Bart » Mon Mar 19, 2018 7:58 pm

Well adoption.. So what I want to tell you.. I don't have any experience in using adopting procedure or communication with some adopted babies. Adoption is not so familiar thing for me . I have never tried this procedure and I am not sure I will be able to take part in adoption program. Maybe you will not understand me but I must admit that I am scared to adopt the baby from other family. To my mind it is not natural, and otherwise I would like to he a biological father for baby, as now.
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Re: adoption

Postby Davis » Sat Apr 28, 2018 5:39 am

Until a year the baby pulls everything that comes in his mouth. He thus knows the world. Do not limit it. If he eats with his hands and is all smeared - it's okay. But he will enjoy the meal and you will never have problems with his appetite.When he begins to walk, he will grasp hands for everything: to tear the wallpaper, tweet them with a pencil, palm on the polishing and mirror. So he knows the world and you can not forbid it. Better close the mirrors and furniture. It's temporary!
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Re: adoption

Postby Joel » Sat May 12, 2018 7:24 am

"The mind will scream that it's nonsense, that the near is not to blame in that he died, that he did not want to leave you alone. But someone small and unhappy inside of us knows that from the right words it does not become easier for him, that pain and resentment live. In my experience I will say that this offense, in one form or another, is practically in all people who survived the loss.If you are seriously hurt, do not hesitate to admit it, first of all, to yourself. Any attempt to get away from resentment, saying "well, you, everything is normal, I do not mind at all" or "well, you, I have long forgiven", will only drive the abscess inside. No - "I'm sorry, I'm very hurt and very bad." Only by allowing yourself to feel this, you can get out of the state of (obvious or secret) resentment.
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Re: adoption

Postby Adrian » Sun Jun 03, 2018 9:59 am

More precisely, it motivates a person to take the actions that he needs to do in order to achieve what he wants to achieve. Whatever you do not understand by success - gaining wealth, power, fame, other material benefits, achieving the desired results in any business, increasing your status in the society, fulfilling your desires and achieving your goals - for all this you need to make certain efforts . That is, it does not happen that you a couple of times have snapped your fingers and immediately got the desired result.
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Re: adoption

Postby Caleb » Mon Jun 11, 2018 6:51 am

I came across parents who intentionally strictly educated their children, accustoming them to appreciate money and material things, while they needed only more attention and affection. Understand that a fully-fledged person in all respects, with a stable psyche, has no problems with anything, he can perfectly take care of himself and his well-being, he will not have problems with the opposite sex, he can easily adapt in any society, and also without special problems can to defend their interests.

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