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Each parent seeks to grow an intelligent, capable, kind, responsive child, but it does not work for everyone. Children grow spoiled, capricious, arrogant. In a word, spoiled. In this article, we will advise what to do to prevent this from happening to your child.We, as responsible parents, wish to raise our child to the maximum prepared for independent life in this unpredictable world. But let us tell the truth: many people, by "preparing for an independent life," only mean a good formal education. From an early age the child is taught mathematics, writing, science and other sciences, and a little later they are sent to a strong school. Of course, all this is useful and necessary in adult life, but is it enough to grow an unspoiled child?
For the fact that so much time harassed themselves. So much effort and nerves spent on experiencing and chewing insult. For the fact that for this time they deprived themselves of joy. Ask for your pardon! Unfortunately, it is not possible to collect all the insults in a heap and at once to work it all out. Each insult requires an individual approach. Take time and sort out the debris from the grievances accumulated in your entire life. Make yourself a great gift - a life without grievances! A man can not be offended.
Everyone is usualy complaining about job. And even me sometimes. Just a little bit besides I would like to say that my job is pretty creative and valuable for me. Nowadays I try to show myself as much as possible. As for experience, I am not sure that it us normal to give such boundaries for people who want to work. If you are full of troubles and you don't know what to do, try to think positive. Apart from it, your job should bring you satisfaction and pleasure as many people mentioned. So good luck
But all this is evident, all these childish manipulations, all these cheap tricks people use, and that's why I want to deal with serious, older people who are responsible for their words. Great thinkers of the human race, pointed to the unconsciousness of people, in which they do all those bad deeds for themselves, completely not understanding what they are doing. I fully agree with this, I would only add to this the weakness of people, as a reason, which motivates not the most reasonable actions for oneself.
Perhaps you can work with the negative qualities of your character, perhaps you can resort to the help of a psychologist. But it is obvious that if something prevents you from communicating normally with other people, and therefore they avoid you, then you need something to do with this. Otherwise, nothing in your life will change - you will remain a lonely person.Let's go further, and let's say that you do not offend people and do not repel them from yourself with your attitude toward them, but are simply afraid to communicate with them, well, for example, because of the negative past experience and as a consequence - because of the subconscious fear of failure .
And even men, despite their polygamy, still prefer to have sex not just and not only with a sexually attractive woman, but with a woman with whom they have a spiritual intimacy. Maybe not everyone wants this, but many. Or better say so - men can have sex with different women, but they only make love with the woman they love, to which they experience not only sexual, but also emotional and emotional attraction. So people not only control animal instincts, but also more sublime feelings
Some people are inconsistent, they can abandon their decisions without any logical justification, but only under the influence of emotions. Therefore, it is important to notice and behave in a similar way, skilfully skipping along with the person from one thought to another. It can be unpleasant, sometimes it can even irritate, but the main thing is the result. We are all not perfect, we all have our shortcomings, we need to be more tolerant of this. If you do not learn to accept people as they are, or rather, if you do not learn to accept their shortcomings - you will not be able to build useful relationships with them.
I'm a student, a first-year student, and it's very difficult to find a job, which takes less time, as more time is devoted to studying, doing homework. For example, my father like his job very much. He is a civil servant, sometimes he has difficulties in his work, and he rarely quarrel with his boss, but he has still satisfied his work. My mother is an engineer. This is a very responsible work, as she should have more attention to not to be mistaken. And my profession is a teacher of English and German languages. I want to be one of those teachers who helps young people gain profound knowledge of the leading foreign languages.
In general, whoever would not shift responsibility to anyone, together with this responsibility, the control of the situation and the control of the atmosphere in the family as a whole are shifted. Why should we bind our own hands, shifting responsibility for everything to others, because then nothing can be done, then you can only wait for the actions you need from other people who are not interested in it. Do it as you need it, only you can, with your own hands, and above all your head.
So in these feelings - anxiety and anxiety, I do not see any problems, because they are not, rather, on the contrary, I see in them a great opportunity for you to change your life for the better and become stronger. We will only have to deal with you with what is bothering you and why, because if something is bothering you, it means that you have to do something. You must understand what information in yourself contains the feelings you are experiencing and what you need to do with this information, how to react to it.
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