What to do if husband drinks?

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Bart
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Re: What to do if husband drinks?

Postby Bart » Wed Mar 28, 2018 3:07 am

Good morning people. It is pretty difficult for me to wake up now :| :shock: To my mind if you see that your close person uses alcohol try to fight with it. Actually it would be really the best method in your situation, to help your close person to fight with such a habit. It seems to me that nowadays it is better to be into something healthy and active, but not use a lot of alcohol and be drunk every day. It is scared for me and I don't understand such actions from other people. I try not to use at all. it is possible to be happy without alcohol
Joel
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Re: What to do if husband drinks?

Postby Joel » Sat May 12, 2018 6:40 am

Nevertheless, the very act of forgiveness is very important in human communication. Apologizing, you say that you admit the error of your actions, regret it.
And also express hope for understanding and the possibility of continuing the relationship. Since we are all different, our ideas about "good" and "bad" are different, so the apologetic skill will avoid unnecessary grievances and enemies.
Daniel89
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Re: What to do if husband drinks?

Postby Daniel89 » Sun May 20, 2018 10:00 pm

:arrow: I am against it. It would be rather better for us to lead healthy lifestyle. And fortunately my husband understands it. Of course, there is a fashion not to drink alcohol, but not many people stick to it. The persentage of people who use the alcohol is great. People depend from it.It can completely change all our imunity system and influenced blood preasure. I think that alcoholic habits should be prevented from the very beginning. I am sorry about your husband, just some specialist can help you in this case
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Re: What to do if husband drinks?

Postby Adrian » Sat Jun 02, 2018 11:05 am

The only thing that really always needs you attention is your attention to yourself. Who you are and who you can become, and who you want to become - do you have time to think about it, or have you already thought about it? Families, very many are small religious sects, studying the art of worship and submission, the art of obsequiousness to others. Study the book "The Way of the Samurai" if there is a burning desire for someone to serve, there everything is described quite well, a wonderful guide for a slave, if you read it from the slave's point of view. But I do not recommend you dear readers, no one to serve, there is no sense, no buzz, no great need. Where better to live a hard life, but his own.
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Re: What to do if husband drinks?

Postby Daren » Tue Jul 10, 2018 10:03 am

However, as I often noticed, many people do not fully understand what kind of trust people should have and what it is based on. They like and want to trust and want to be trusted, but behave in such a way that their actions destroy all the trust of a partner to themselves, and their trust in a partner. Even a small, but very painful lie - can undermine the credibility of a person for a very long time. And vice versa - if you unreasonably do not trust your partner, suspect everything in him and constantly check - you thereby demonstrate your unfriendly attitude towards him. You give your partner an excuse to deceive you, unreasonably not trusting him. Because people become for us those whom we see in them.
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Re: What to do if husband drinks?

Postby Jason24 » Thu Jul 19, 2018 4:03 pm

I think alcohol affects on our health, and it's harmful to drink it very often. For example, my grandfather drinks alcohol three times a day in a bar, and his health becomes worse and worse. So, if you drink it every day, it's really very bad. If your husband drinks, maybe try to interested him in something except alcohol. As if the situation continues, all will be worse and worse, you will be care for him all life. What about me and my family, I can drink alcohol few times for year. So it can be a big problem for you, try that he will change on better, maybe offer him to apply for a job.
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Re: What to do if husband drinks?

Postby Dilan » Mon Jul 23, 2018 8:11 am

Simply as you understand, nothing happens, and on the one hand defending your point of view will lead to a conflict, or someone will have to abandon their plans, that is, to sacrifice their opinion and their desire, which this opinion promotes, in favor of peace and consent.
And in fact here it may be that a more powerful member of the family can simply force the others to do as he wishes, which in turn makes meaningless the presence of his opinion, which is simply incapable of realizing his desire, which lies at the basis of his opinions.
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Re: What to do if husband drinks?

Postby Kane » Fri Jul 27, 2018 9:35 am

If war breaks out, the civilian population suffers mainly, which is simply not adapted to violence, it was brought up in such a way that the only manifestation of their instinct for self-preservation is the fear of actions on their part. It's like in some countries of Europe and the USA, people just hope for those whose calling in society to help others in critical situations, instead of helping themselves and not counting on anyone at all, except for themselves.
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Re: What to do if husband drinks?

Postby Wester » Thu Aug 16, 2018 6:37 pm

Therefore perseverance and perseverance need to be developed, these qualities must be in every self-respecting person. This article, dear readers, will help you do this.
Be sure to read it to the end, and you will learn how to become more stubborn and persistent, and therefore, a stronger spirit and a life-friendly person, ready to always go to the finish. And becoming a strong spirit, you will certainly achieve great success in life.

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