Asking relatives for help

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Re: Asking relatives for help

Postby Williams » Thu Sep 22, 2016 8:12 pm

i think that it is normal to ask relatives for the help. you know i have really wonderful relations with my parents and i am really proud that actually they are m parents. i feel their support all the time, even if we are far from each other i feel that they worry about me and they take care of me. i think that it is really very important and it shall be so. my parents are m support, they are my wall and i know that without them i would not be the person i am now. that is why i am really thankful to them that a few years ago they did not let me be depressed and stressed, they were always with me and they are those people who saved me from something bad.
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Re: Asking relatives for help

Postby Frankie » Fri Sep 15, 2017 8:57 am

Hello everybody. I am in a good mood and what about you guys? I remember my parents reaction when they found out that we were going to become parents. They were so happy!!! Really my husband and I even did not expect such reaction. We were so happy to hear pleasant words and support from them. It was the best time for us. Their attitude to our decision was quite good and they were also interested in surrogate motherhood. They even suggested their help with the process and money. So they are happy grandparents now.
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Re: Asking relatives for help

Postby James » Thu Oct 19, 2017 6:06 am

Good morning good morning people!!! We really have wonderful relationships with his relatives because I mentioned that I even don't communicate with my parents. And you know their opinion as for it was really good because they also would like to be grandparents and their thoughts as for surrogate motherhood is really the same as we have. they even suggested their financial help as for it. I think that they are fantastic . By the way they even tried to find agency for us and all time we get support from them.
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Re: Asking relatives for help

Postby Mr.Harry » Thu Nov 02, 2017 10:33 pm

:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: Helloooo peopleee!!!!Pleasant memories from me are guaranteed from me)))They really liked me and continue to respect me. Moreover they really helped us some years ago to become fathers, they found the right surrogate agency for us and they were supporting us during the whole process. I really appreciated their such an attitude toward our desire to become fathers and now I can say I am happy to have such second parents... When we were asking our relatives for help everything was quite good and they helped us in this process!
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Re: Asking relatives for help

Postby Timmy » Thu Nov 30, 2017 8:42 am

Hey people. . I am thankful them for their understanding and support in difficult periods of my life. I am so happy that I have such parents . They even supported our decision to become parents due to surrogate motherhood. We were the happiest people. Moreover my parents even decided to help us with money, because unfortunately in that period we didn't have enough money for this procedure.. My relatives really helped me when I needed their help. It was fantastic from their side I suppose..
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Re: Asking relatives for help

Postby Ernest » Tue Dec 26, 2017 2:02 pm

Where is the guarantee that your sister then will not have the desire to take part in the taking care after your baby like his mother?
She may not have the genetic relation to it but she may say that she born your baby and she has the right for this baby. When you go through the program in clinic when you don’t know the surrogate mother yourself everything can be much easier because surrogate mother signs the agreement according to which she doesn’t have any right on that baby.
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Re: Asking relatives for help

Postby Felix » Sun Feb 18, 2018 6:03 pm

i think that it is a good way to seek for a help and to get it. your parents would be the best for your child because they know what to do and they are your relatives, they will help your child as their own.
but of course you have to understand that it is not very good to overwhelm your parents with the child. if they do not have an opportunity to look after him or they do not want it then you have to accept it and look after your child on your own. it is my opinion about it.
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Re: Asking relatives for help

Postby Romario » Thu Mar 01, 2018 3:37 am

Hello guys. Do you like the weather today? I don't like it. Talking about my parents I might admit that they found it necessary to take part in the process of motherhood. And my parents were just for my attempts to become a father using surrogate motherhood. It is not wonder that they supported me and my partner and they even tried to help us with money and of course advice. Talking about my partner's parents, I might admit that they were also eager to become grandparents
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Re: Asking relatives for help

Postby Duke » Sat Mar 03, 2018 7:29 pm

I think that raising a child is time-consuming. And no wonder that, waiting for baby, dads expects not only its sole participation in this process.
In addition, it would seem, there are so many loved ones - husband, parents, father in law and mother in law, friends and relatives - all of them could dedicate some portion of their forces for baby care.
But in reality this is not always, but often - not quite in the form and not in the quantities for which we originally hoped.
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Re: Asking relatives for help

Postby Tyler » Fri Mar 16, 2018 4:09 am

My relatives are the best. I am so lucky to have them. They were really happy recognizing the fact that they would become grandparents and this attitude to us really made my heart warm. It was really grateful for us to understand that in this difficult step our parents will support us and help. They were ready to be with us every day in this period of our life. They tried to do everything to take part in this process and help us with money and support as well. Everything was truly cool

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