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Posted: Thu Nov 09, 2017 8:25 pm
I don't think so. Children in all orphanages want to live in family, to have parents, to feel love. They just want to live an ordinary live. It's your choice, you choose which child you want to adopt. In such places we can talk with workers to understand what we need to expect from the child. Also not all of the children have different illnesses, especially mental.
Posted: Tue Dec 26, 2017 1:48 pm
I think that everything and rejection, and psychological incompatibility, can be very annoying that some traits or behavior.
Maybe smell. Everything cannot be listed, why a child can irritate. The lower the age of the child the less the risk that the child may be irritating. Infant only provokes delight. A three-year-aged crisis of three years is also multiplied by adaptation. No, I can say everything can be overcome if there is a lot of work and wish. Mainly on yourself. You should be ready for everything! You can if it is necessary visit special training courses which are available now.
Posted: Tue Jan 09, 2018 5:59 pm
I think there is no other way to overcome the fear, but to face it. To do the thing you are afraid to do. I know that this is not really the case. My advice to the author of the post would be the following, eventually./ Wait for some time, several months, perhaps a year.
Then, if you will see, that you still do have the urge to adopt the kid - do this. It means that your wish to do that is much more strong then your fears. And eventually it will help you to overcome all the fears that you have. Consult your partner about this.
Posted: Sun Feb 18, 2018 6:17 pm
you have to be aware that when you decided to get a kid, and it really is not important in what proper way: adoptin, fostering, or surrogacy probem, you are sure to face some problems and there is nothing bad about it...
you are risking first of all to loos your life which you had before the kid, and it okay, all of us wil do it, after getting a kid. you are risking to loose sleep and feeling of sureness in your life, cause soon, you'll be greatly worried as for the well being of your kid
Posted: Sat Mar 03, 2018 7:22 pm
in theory, while passing trough the first stages of the kid's acclimatization in his new family. that is why it is important to establish the first contact , while you are still visiting this kid in the orphanage.
If we are speaking about the babies, then I do not think that you will experience problems of this kind. they still do not have the solid personality, and it will depend on you, what kind of the person it will grow up to. If you are afraid of the genetic heritage, then I can assure you that the raising up gives more then 90 percent of the traits of character.
Posted: Fri Mar 16, 2018 4:06 am
I am so glad to meet you here today too!!! So okey... I am pleased to meet you again today. You know there are many things that should be discussed. For example you might that all couples have some certain risks while using this program. It is natural. But for you not to have any problems and any hesitations I strongly recommend to try the variant with the consultation. It seems to me that first steps of this program you might to appreciate all consultations and so on.
Posted: Mon Apr 16, 2018 8:16 am
To be honest I am not well aware of it. Truly say adoption is not familiar process to me. But there are also risks as in many other procedures. Children in all orphanages want to live in family, to have parents, to feel love. They just want to live an ordinary live. It's your choice, you choose which child you want to adopt. In such places we can talk with workers to understand what we need to expect from the child. All children need family,. But if you want to adopt baby you might consult with workers and lawyers first of all to avoid risks.
Posted: Mon Apr 30, 2018 8:37 am
Discovered the ability of the child and should be praised, and the development of abilities in every way approved; one should not stint on praise if the child in his chosen case has undoubted successes - in drawing, for example, or in singing, or in sports, etc. After believing in himself, being assured that in some case he almost the best (among peers, it is meant), the child will be able to achieve very good results. But the main result will be the formation of a confident and confident person, a person who knows the value of a person, a word and honor that can be trusted in everything, and which you can always rely on.
Posted: Thu Jul 05, 2018 3:20 pm
And in fact among people such majority who is under anesthesia of their mental abilities, who knows what makes him stronger, but does nothing for his own development. For many, their most valuable organ is in anabiosis, they do not use it, preferring to act instinctively and according to pre-established patterns.
A typical misconception is to be in relation to money, what do we have with them most important, their availability, or their sufficient number?
Posted: Thu Jul 19, 2018 3:19 pm
In general, it is necessary to help a person to expand his worldview and thus prepare him for real life - to do smarter, stronger, more confident, bolder, more cunning, to teach him to solve various problems in the most literate, not the easiest way. Then he will become less vulnerable to all kinds of dependencies. His consciousness will dissolve in a multitude of dependencies, so none of them will dominate it. The works here, as you can see, are an endless land. The same maturity of the mind does not come quickly.