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Re: Risks

Postby Klaus1205 » Thu Nov 09, 2017 8:25 pm

I don't think so. Children in all orphanages want to live in family, to have parents, to feel love. They just want to live an ordinary live. It's your choice, you choose which child you want to adopt. In such places we can talk with workers to understand what we need to expect from the child. Also not all of the children have different illnesses, especially mental.
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Re: Risks

Postby Ernest » Tue Dec 26, 2017 1:48 pm

I think that everything and rejection, and psychological incompatibility, can be very annoying that some traits or behavior.
Maybe smell. Everything cannot be listed, why a child can irritate. The lower the age of the child the less the risk that the child may be irritating. Infant only provokes delight. A three-year-aged crisis of three years is also multiplied by adaptation. No, I can say everything can be overcome if there is a lot of work and wish. Mainly on yourself. You should be ready for everything! You can if it is necessary visit special training courses which are available now.
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Re: Risks

Postby Diego » Tue Jan 09, 2018 5:59 pm

I think there is no other way to overcome the fear, but to face it. To do the thing you are afraid to do. I know that this is not really the case. My advice to the author of the post would be the following, eventually./ Wait for some time, several months, perhaps a year.
Then, if you will see, that you still do have the urge to adopt the kid - do this. It means that your wish to do that is much more strong then your fears. And eventually it will help you to overcome all the fears that you have. Consult your partner about this.

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