Ben_Roar wrote: Eventually, it gave him much more then that.
this is what it is all about. Though I am not sure that all the parents who go for the adoption really able to do that, to give that much. That is the reason why people are spending almost a year with the kid before they will have the right to make the decision about adoption. At least that is this way in my country. Sometimes people do see in some time that they will not handle the task, and there is no shame in giving up in this case. This is a great commitment.
I am not sure that we would handle with that with my fiance... That is why we decided to go trough the surrogacy program basically.