I agree with guys when they talk that it is better to adopt both children. They know each other good. They grew up together and it is believed that children develop faster when they are growing together with their brothers or sisters. When you adopt only one child you separated souls. It can have negative impact on the development of both of them. So if you have the opportunity to adopt and rais two children then it is better to adopt both of them. If you don’t have the opportunity to adopt both then it is better to find another child who has no brothers or sisters.
As for me partially I can agree with the previous post. To tell the truth I also wouldn’t be glad to be separated from my brother or sister in such situation and a lot of specialists have already said and proved that it is better not to separate children for their better development. But if the couple has ability or opportunity to adopt only one child why not? Of course it bad to separate but will it be better for them both to stay without parents because the potential parents don’t have the opportunity to adopt them both? So I have double opinion – I think it is better to adopt both but if there is no such opportunity at least one baby will have family.
i do not even know because you know i have to think about adoption in my life at all but i can tell you that you shall be really sure in what you are doing in your life and i think that you shall think whether you are doing everything right or not, and of course i do not think that it shall be a problem for you because you can not separate brother and sister and if you are thinking about it then i think that it would not be good, just think about it. i hope that your life would be better and you would not feel any problems if you adopt both children, that is what i think about it.
Hi everybody!!! What about your mood today?? Are you in a good mood??? I want to say that it is really difficult question for me... I think that such a decision should be accepted by your partner and you. If you are ready to bring up two babies and if you are really ready to have double difficulties so you can do it. In any case someone can say that it is clever not to share brother and sister. Some couples are ready just for one baby in their family. So that's why here I can say that people are different and their decisions are different too here.
Here you are fellows. How are you doing guys? So I think that everything depends on the type of family. For example if you have enough money to bring up two children why not. But it is sad if you divide brother and sister. In this case I also can understand people who do it. They simply don't have opportunity to bring up two babies. It is clear. But I think that brother and sister should be together. And if I have such a situation I will adopt both of them you know. I would not like to divide them
Sometimes it is very heard to take care about one child, and to take care about 2 or more children would be a real problem for a parent, but not for a child. Children would be very glad to have a brother or a sister or to have both of them. Make a right decision for you not to fell sorry.
Well, it is a choise of every parent whether to adopt one or several kids. There are many cases when a couple want to adopt a child whom they love already, but then the rector of the orphanage tell's them that they can't adopt this child because he has a sister and they can't be parted. It can be a real problem, but it's up to you what to choose.
Hi everybody and everyone here friends. How are you feeling today? Frankly speaking I would be ready to adopt twins or brother and sister because to my mind it is really horrible to separate these dear souls. It would be really harmful and horrible for them especially in the age after five. In the newborn age it is not harmful because children don't understand everything and that's why I think so. But on the other hand I can understand those people who are not ready to adopt both, because it should be really difficult.
hello guys. i want to have big, happy family with two kids, boy and girl of course. i think it is perfect family, if they have got a boy and a girl. it is like full complete set i am joking of course. but i understand how hard it will be to adopt two children at the same time, especially for the same sex couple. sorry, but i think that women have got their skills of being parent in their genetic code do you agree with me? for us it is a little bit harder to be a parent. but if the children are twins, of course i will adopt both because twins can't be separated.
I think, if I had an opportunity, I would adopt two or more childrenat once. I think to have a big family is great, but of course there are also some disadvantages. And the main of they is to share your love among the children. I think in such families children can be devided in favourite children and less favourite. I thin that having a big family is very good, but it also can be many problems.
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