Decision on adoption should be made consciously, in the presence of doubt is not necessary to do so, so that later to not regret. Both partners must be willing and fully prepared for the emergence of a new family member. It is important to know that with the advent of the baby in the family going process of adaptation, habituation, change internal and external world. I think that first of all we need to have some little preparation. And if you already have a child biologically, you will be much easier to find common language with the adopted child. In addition, your experience will help you in many things.
Love does not come immediately. Difficulties and experiences coming, childhood diseases and whims. Especially hard to adapt a child came out of infancy. He had already begun to understand the world, he began to realize this world, he went through a difficult test with the family, children's home, conflicts with peers and adults. If it is possible, perhaps, better to take the newborn, you get used to him quickly, and he no longer feels like your own. In any case, I want to say that you can have some problems with the children of the age of reason. So much better than trying to adopt a baby.
Adoption is considered, and quite a long time, the best form of adoption into the family of children left without parental care. After the adoptive parents brought in the child his family, start a relationship between them is exactly the same as those between parents and children they have given birth. Without a doubt, to take a new baby in your family - is a crucial step for the adoptive parents, it is very time-consuming and complicated process. In any case, I think it's also a good way to have a baby when you actually dream about it. You can give that child all your love, kindness and care. He will be grateful for all his life.
Most adoptive parents must go through many trials to finally, the child was in their family. That is why each adoption case (including the baby of the house) is strictly regulated by law, is carried out strict control of each step on the way to the accomplishment of the fact. The secret of adoption called any information about the fact of adoption from which you can make the correct conclusion that the parents are not present for the child. The concept of the confidentiality of adoption forms for a creation of an enabling environment for the child's life in a new family to be able to protect him from possible problems and complications.
It is very important that the child considered himself on par with native children of the adoptive parents, if they exist, as well as the secrecy of adoption helps protect against issues of foreign people who are not aware of this fact. The mystery of adoption helps to keep the peace of the child and the family, which he took, so protect it legally required to the level of all the officials who were involved in this matter. I think you can find a lot of information on the Internet or specialized literature about this. In any case, there are certain difficulties. But if you decide to have a child by adoption - it is not important.
In addition, before a final decision on the adoption of a child you need to know some things. Revealing the secrets of adoption can give an unpleasant trail - it can also cause a strong moral injury to a child. This is understandable if many years preserved and carefully guarded secret of adoption, the sudden disclosure of this information is equal to the child to a strong moral shock. As a result, it can hinder the process of further education, as well as complicate relations with the adoptive parents. Therefore, you should be treated very carefully and gently to all that the authorities will require from you at the time of adoption.
The mystery of adoption is still being discussed around the world, namely, the fact whether it is necessary at all. For example, in other countries (France, England, UK, etc.). totally different look at this question. It is believed that much more important than the formal aspect of the matter, and the thin complex psychology, building a relationship between the adopted child from the hospital and his new parents. But in any case, you have to understand that as long as this law exists, all foster parents must understand the responsibility and obligations that we can get through it all.
The mystery of adoption is the most important chapter in the case for the adoption into the family of the child. All persons who are aware of it, must know that for its disclosure will need to be held accountable. And this responsibility is serious. In addition, the mystery can be known to a very wide range of people: from the officials, and finishing with neighbors and relatives, and so its conservation will result in a very time-consuming process. But the guarantor acts The Law, which should not be transgressed. All this is quite difficult. But you have to be ready for it, if you're going to adopt a child.
Foster family - a form of raising a child (children) in the family. Usually a foster family pass children who can not pass on the adoption or custody, due to a lack of necessary for that child's legal status and can not find his parents or adoptive parents. This family replaces the child's stay in a children's home or a shelter to home education and created on the basis of an agreement between the adoptive parent (s) and the guardianship. child's room in a period defined by the contract and the family may be different. Therefore, you must also understand and a similar situation. Not all children can go for adoption.
Pros - countries with more developed economies allow the child to realize their potential and become fully healthy (because most are children with physical disabilities to varying degrees.) Cons - complexity, and sometimes virtually impossible to observe the conditions of the further stay of the child in the new family, it is often referred to in recent media. The motives of the benefits expire and physical. Family wishing to adopt a child. I think that before making a final decision you have to look at this situation and find out about the possibility of adoption in your town. But you also can adopt a child from another country.
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